My husband and I argue...alot. I'm not saying that we argue all day, every day but, we do argue.
I used to feel that..."ok, we must not be meant to be together"...after we have a heated arguement. I had to realize that in the beginning of the relationship, I was very passive. Whatever he wanted to do, I would just follow along. Now as I've grown (in age and wisdom), I've learned to voice my opinions alot more.
I've also realized that we are two different people who were raised completely differently. We don't have the same opinions about many things. We ARE going to disagree. Sometimes we feel passionately about what we are saying and it gets loud every now and then. But you know what?...our relationship is stronger for it. We don't hold anything back. We have OUR way of communicating and it seems to be working!
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