I know it's been awhile since I've posted anything here. I wanted to post this information because I found it helpful as well as informative. I read, what I believe to be and excerpt, from a book by Leslie Vernick titled "How to Act Right When Your Husband Acts Wrong". I have included the link to this information below. I hope that it helps someone.
http://www.leslievernick.com/pdfs/How%20To%20Be%20Happy%20in%20an%20Unhappy%20Marriage.pdf
Be Blessed!!
There may be times when you feel that your significant other is not living up to your expectations. Well, the fact that they are YOUR expectations may be the problem. Consider...they may not be capable of living up to your high expectations. Consider...your expectations are more of how you hoped they would evolve as time passed. I had to realize that I went into my relationship thinking that he would eventually change and mature as years passed. That was my mistake. I knew who he was and what his personality and character was when I came to know him. It was my mistake to think that he would change or that I could change him. When I learned to accept him as he was and not stress over or become frustrated that he did not do things they way I wanted him to or that he didn't rationalize or think the way I did; I became more at ease and less frustrated with him. ACCEPTANCE...
